apparantly there is no way to set the default setting as "friends only"
so if i wanted to make the layout pretty so if yr not friended all u see is my FO banner...id have to edit every entry ive ever made and make them all FO
i think id rather shoot myself
so now i must either make a new username
not bother with a banner and just make everything from here out friends only
or give up and leave it so all can read